We heart Ruffa

ruffa is oh so showbiz! if she really loves and intends to keep her family, she should've stayed by her husband's side and no longer embrace the glitter that showbusiness brings.

she is a strong woman...i know she will survivie this obstacle...

i like her she is very beautiful.
than you

I'm don't know whom to believe. Before, Ruffa kept on telling that she's happily married and so on and so forth. I don't even believe that she is a battered wife. I think it just a publicity or a drama to asks people sympathy.

Look at her, can you see a battered wife symptoms? I don't think so? I think, she claimed being a battered wife because she can't get what she wants. Eh, ngayon, nakakita sya ng katapat.

Ay showbiz nga talaga.

I cannot imagine the fairytale wedding was ended.Ruffa should make up her mind,she should know her priorities.Being married to a muslim and live in a muslim community indeed a lot different.If her husband respect her and always on her side she can conquer all the obstacle.But if her husband was the one whose hurting her physically and emotionally its a different story.I wish her all the best and peace of mind.She should consider the emotional impact to her kids.

live your life to the fullest...life is too short...

life is short & beautiful.... divorce and leave your husband.

Ruffa is a liar.She is hungry of the spotlight and she wants a comeback.She knows Yilmaz loves her too much and ruffa knows she was pampered and spoiled and brat.And annabelle is a bad mother.Why can't she let ruffa decide what she do in her married life? Ruffa has her own life as a married woman.What annabelle do is to just advice ruffa so she can have a happy family life.I am a mother too .and i am here i kuwait.i know whats happening in showbiz.I know ruffa wants the glitter of the limelight.and she is doing a scene for her to be in the spotlight again.Poor Yilmaz.we know how he loves and value his family.Hope ruffa will wake up and realize the value of happy family.I hope annabelle will stop acting.She can't give ruffa her happiness yilmaz can give.They have to know money and fame isn't anything in this world.Please tell them.

Ruffa will always be the woman of beauty and style worthy of admiration at all times. Maski pa anong angle, maganda at sozy pa din ang dating. World-class talaga, kaya ba ninyo iyon? Long live Ruffa! I love you!

Remember the metrofilmfest scam involving Gabby Concepcion, Ruffa, Gretchen Barretto, Lolit Solis? Remember how Gretchen appeared very "surprised" and lost when Ruffas's name was proclaimed winner? Remember how such an act of lie was well "delivered" by Ruffa? What I want to say is that there is again another lie somewhere in this bruhaha in Ruffa's life. It may not be 100% but certainly it is not 1000% deception-free. I also dont think she is a battered wife. She is a pampered wife. Maybe she just went overboard somewhere that the husband needed to stomp down his foot. She indeed has a very strong reason not to go back to Yilmaz or he will account her for every negative publicity.

pls. have mercy to your husband and to your kids, they love you. Forget fame and fortune it can't buy happiness.
Kaya mo yan, aza aza fighting!!!

If Ruffa is indeed a battered wife, then, by all means, leave the b______! No woman was created by God to be beaten by her husband or by anyone, for that matter!

If she is not a battered wife, they should consider marriage counselling and heal the wounds of their respective inner child.

I shall pray for them.

Trisha

i hope that what happened to ruffa will be a wake up call to all those Filipina and women from other country and religion to think hard before they get married. When they said, in love, race and religion do not matter, they were lying. when you convert to Islam from Christianity, you denounce Christ as your God and saviour as He is not recognized in their religion as God but mere prophet. When you marry a muslim, you denounce your being Christian. It is already difficult to marry but the added pressure and stress to adapt to new culture will make it even harder.

It's all about choices.

Right from the start the marriage was doomed, the bride a modern Christian woman while the groom a Muslim from
another country. Some Filipinas have no idea, they thought having a foreign husband as a status symbol. Wrong, it depends where he comes from. So pls
fellow Pinays don't marry men from Muslim countries or poorer countries like India,
Pakistan and Bangladesh or eatern Europe.

Blah Blah Blah. Who cares

Ruffa is not a person to be admired by any self respecting woman, her words along with her mother cannot be trusted. She and her family especially her mom craves all the attention the media is focusing on her because like everyone knows she is trying to make a comeback into Philippine Showbiz. Her family are gold diggers, Ruffa may talk dress and act like she has really accomplished something but at the end she had to sleep around to be finacially secure. Remember the Brunei scandal a few years ago? Wasn't there a song made for those high maintenace models and actresses who went to Brunie to sleep with the Sultan and his relatives to be lavished with gifts and money; that song was called "Brunei Beauty". Women like her is the reason why other countires perception of the women from the Philippines is so tarnished. When it comes down to it Mrs Annabelle pimped her daughter Ruffa to the highest bidder in order to save her family from finacial ruin. Sadly people have short memories because if anyone can recall everytime there is a scandal envolving Ruffa or her family she seems to have a leave of absence for awhile then she appears like nothing happened maybe the people of Turkey just saw her for what she really is and grew tired of her and she realized that her welcome there is on borrowed time.

Ruffa is a perinnial liar.Even before they got married I know they will divorce.
Other that Filmfest scandal,she mentioned before the wedding that about several thousand of Bektas family are coming - not even his husband's parents if my memory serves me right.

I think ruffa deserve a famas trophee for her acting in this stage of her life. If she really wants to settle her domestic problem, she should settle it in the confines of her home instead of flaunting it in public. Im sure her un-educated, uncouth, ill manerred stage mother is behind this brouhaha.

i dont think ruffa is a battered wifey... yah, there's an admission from yilmaz that there is "psychological and physical violence" between them, meaning from both sides. remember at one point that annabel said nagsusumbong sa knya si ylmaz at pinapakita ang mga kalmot from ruffa... ang tanong y cant ruffa directly admit she's a battered wife instead of just implying it and letting the public figure it out? parang bhala na kyo magjudge and whatever judgement u have is ur responsibility... isa pang tanong, why would such a man admit it openly for the world to know if he's guilty? i dont think so...

arabs, muslim or not, give family so much importance and priority. i have arabic friends for more than 3 years now so i have observed so much, if not 100%, of their culture already.

so, let's just pray for both of them...

leave her alone

i can still refresh what annabel always sez on tv,"oh,kung hindi kita pinapayuhan, di sana napunta ka sa mga patay gutom dyan." both she and ruffa may have crossed boundaries, that's why someone more powerful above gave them this wake up call, anyhow, a "patay gutom" but loving is far more better than a wealthy pogi who slams beautiful ladies face for his breakfast... still, my sympathies to them.

Ruffa don't lie at this time what happend in his married life. The truth is, the turkysh people have a very strange culture that is why the France country opposed for the candidature of the Turkey for almost fourty years now to be a member of europeen country. Because in that country is no exist the human rigths, that's why if you are a woman in Turkey you don't have a power more than your husband. Believe me dear readers, the Turkey people here in France has a very low class standard of life, they come here in France to have a better life. I know too that their cotume is well responded all around europe that they are very danger for all woman. France as a founder of human rigths collect all the documentations of the world which shows almost weekly in television the different problem in the world. Even my lovely country Philippines as what we think is beautyfull but sad to say has thousand of bad reputations: from the corruption to pollution, prostitution & crime, etc. Nevertheless, as is the Turkey is worse more than us in Philippines because that country is concider as a muslims and compose of millions strange belief from their forefather. Not counted the roman constantinopole 500 years BC was being killed by the arabs people that the
cristanism in that country was being transform to muslims. Hundreds of legendary churches in Turkey was transform to a mosque & the latest was they are not affraid to kill a priest, for them to kill one is their honor to their GOD and consider them as a devine.
This column i think is not enough for me to tell what is behide in that country.
For me, the ex husband of Ruffa has jackpot to have Ruffa in his life. RUffa is blessed to have her mom behinde her so that she can decide easyer to have a divorce W/ that man we call it her " une tête the turc".
My advice for you Ruffa enjoy your life now being as a single mother and the world is with you to lean on. You are young and beautiful, you have many chance to find the rigth man for you and don't be in a hurry you will have it.

my message for Liza and Di,
first of all hello kababayan, i was intrigue by your negative comment to Ruffa. I don't protect her because she is my idol;my answere is 'NO' she is not my idol and i do not have any intention to adore the stars in the Philippines or whatever. I just want to explaine what is the truth behide. Because almost 22 years i'm working as a fashion designer from different country that's why my experience to encounter almost all kinds of origin in the world from asia to arab country: Saudi arabia, Kuwait, Qatar, Dubai UAE. Now in europe, France, Germany, Belgium, Netherland, United Kingdom and Switzerland. Well, almost i know all the colors of all race
At present living in France as a french citizen have all the opportunity to study the geography & history of many country.

Tell me my dear kababayan, if you are bitten by your husband or if he goes to another women because the muslim can have four wives at the same time and does'nt care to your feeling or if you are slaves by his power.
Do you have still the reason to stay with him all the rest of you life?
Of cours Anabelle Rama being a mother has a rigth to protect her children. And in terms of being in showbiz she has the reason to explaine in mass the truth about her daugther. What happend to Ruffa is just one chapter in her life that she will turn the page to have a new chapter.
Only she can create her own roman, no one can tell about her future. All i know is she is very lucky to have two kids behinde her. And the rest is we don't care. Bye for now & more power to this column.

I was just wondering why ruffa and her mother went through all these publicity? It is human nature to cover and hide skeletons in the closet. HIndi siya nag-iisa kung meron man siyang problems sa marital relationship niya pero going through all the shame..it is unimaginable. Wait nalang tayo sa next move nila...money matters talaga

Who the f*** is she?

waaahhh... nwala ung comment ko???? ba't kya? hmmm... ok lng... newei ruffaya, if ur trying to teach ur hubby a lesson then do it by all means but dont sacrifice ur marriage and ur family... cge ikaw rin... tutal ikaw nman mas nakakaalam ng totoong pangyayari e.... so go for it gurl...

life is short....it's up to you ruffa to make it sweet.

i believe yilmas more than ruffa. Ruffa is an actress. . . and she's coming back to showbiz! Poor yilmas!

Ruffa, you are soo pretty and still young. I'm sure a lot of deserving guys are waiting for you. Be strong, good luck and may God bless you and your kids.

Let's not judge Ruffa. Pray for her instead.

this might be off topic but please hear me out, moderator.

let me just say....who the f*** is this laarni character? she can't even spell right ....and her sentence construction and train of thought is horrendous!

but what got my goat is......she dares to address the other bloggers "kababayan ko" and use the term "my lovely country Philippines" when from the outset, she claims she is "living in France as a french citizen", and is proud of it, i should say, by the way she flaunts it. another hypocrite who claims they love their country of birth but would be the first ones to change citizenship and be at the front line of trampling on and maligning MY BELOVED PILIPINAS.

hindi ka na kababayan laarni at hindi na Pilipinas ang bayan mo....pwede ba magtagalog ka na lang....that is....kung hindi mo ito ikinahihiya.

btw, I've been living overseas as well for many many years and I always show my Pinoy colors to anyone anywhere, the first chance I get.....you should too....but too bad you can't do that anymore..... you're french now.

hay ruffa, pls tell your mom to start growing up and leave your affairs alone. hey girl, start being a wife to your husband, stand by him no matter what...you knew so well how muslims are from the start...and you went on with it...is it love for your husband or love for money...girl you cant bring that money when you die so dont get yourself attached to it so much...and your mom really parang walang kinatandaan...so materialistic...too bad she may have the looks but that foul, smelling character is the one thats making her so ugly....and that goes with you too ruffa...so if you dont want to be branded as such please...get hold of yourself and act like a good wife to your husband...

Marriage is sacred and is 'till death do us part'. What is happening to our world - marriage are breaking up? Advice: do not play with your love.

All my respect to moderator " please hear me".

This is my response to "proud pinoy", una masyado kang vulgar, pangalawa hindi mo man lang ipagtanggol ang kababayan natin na inaapi ng isang dayuhan na nagpapanggap na isang anak ng milyonaryo sa turkey na ang totoo ang ama niya ay utak ng kontrabando sa Turkey okey.
Ang sa akin lang naman ay buksan natin ang ating isipan tungkol sa katotohanan.
Bakit masakit ba sa iyong ego na malaman ang katotohanan na si "Yilmas" ay isang manloloko na nagpanggap lang na mayaman para makuha ang sumpathy ni Ruffa na kung tutuusin ay isang ordynaryong taong lang sa Turkey.
Hoy Mister proud pinoy, tinitingnan mo ba ang yong kapaligiran kung puwede kang magmalaki sa buong mundo kung ang systema ng ating gobyerno ay santambak ang katiwalian.
Kahit kelan ay hindi ko pinalitan ang aking pagkapilipina dinagdagan ko lang " Dual citizenship". At kung ano man ang nalalaman ko ay dapat kong ipamahagi at ipagsigawan sa kapwa ko babae, na buksan natin ang ating isipan bilang babae sa panahon ngayon ay may karapatang tayong ipagtanggol ang ating kaapihan.
Tulad ni Ruffa, nagdesisyon na hiwalayan ang kanyang asawang muslim na dayuhan bah!!! tama lang ang kanyang desisyon. Hindi nyo ba alam na marami pang mga pinay na naghihirap sa kamay ng mga muslim na dayuhan? Well, "proud pinoy kung gusto mong maging hero please bago ka maging vulgar tulungan mo muna ang mga kababayan nating inaapi ng mga dayuhang walang respeto sa kulturang pinoy. Dahil dito sa France nirerespeto nila ang kultura ko bilang isang pilipina. Okey
Bye the way mister F*** proud pinoy
saan ba ang lungga mo, kung nandyan ka rin sa bansa ng mga muslim,,,, well, di ako magtataka kung hindi mo i correct ang wrong spelling ko dahil hindi ako anak ng british. Instead, ininsulto mo pa ako. Ganyan ba ang pagkapilipino mo?

Para sa mga taga hanga ni Ruffa, matuwa kayo sa desisyon niya na hiwalayan ang kanyang asawa. Habang maaga ay namulat siya sa katotohanan.

Laarni, kung sino ka man, naloka ako sa comments/lecture mo! Sana nag-tagalog ka nalang. Your comments were off the chain!
Going back to Ruffa, personal na bagay yan, and must be kept as such. This only means that she coming back to showbiz. Hasn't she? Ang wish ko lang sa karamihan na artista sa atin eh sana ang mga personal na bagay ay di na dapat ibunyag sa print man o national TV.

My gosh! i think that Laarni stole the spotlight here...hehehe! nakakahiya naman! Hoy- di kita maintindihan day.

Back to Ruffing---she loves the attention and the attention she did gets. Hay naku! alam kong it's about money and fame and since she finds it back in her homeland, she can afford to ditch her DH kuno. As if---

"wika nga" masakit tanggapin ang katotohanan. kung ayaw nyong maniwala well, magbulagbulagan kayo at mamatay kayong lahat na Id***,

Ito na ang huli kong message dahil buburahin ko na sa PC ko ang blog na ito.
Magsama sama na kayong lahat.

para sa moderator, paki supprime ang lahat na message ko dahil wala akong panahon na magsayang ng oras sa mga nagpapanggap na may dila ni Shakespear.

sori pero ayoko sanang mag blog kaya lang parang ewan namn yung laarni na yun. Ang hirap intindihin ng ingles niya di ko alam paano nakarating yan diyan. Moderator naman kung magpopost kayo pati naman sanan spelling i tsek nyo..

Saka sana wag mung isali Laarni ang isyu ng pulitika dahil isa na yung lumang isyu ng bansa..
Hay mga tao nga nman makarating lang ibang bansa akala ata nila basura na ang pilipinas...

LAARNI! Kung alam mong hindi ka naman fluent mag english, wag ka nalang kasing mag english. Pinapasakit mo lang kasi ulo ng mga nagbabasa e.

Siyet na malagket!nahirapan akong intindihin ang sinabi ni laarni . . . makahanap nga ng code breaker . . .

I think Laarni is a cool girl. We should be proud of her because she tried her best to speak her mind. Mabuti nga hindi siya nag-comment in French, dahil baka lalong nahirapang umintindi ang iba . Sana tayong lahat na Pilipino makaranas ding makarating sa iba't-ibang bansa para maintindihan natin kung gaano kahirap pag-aralan ang wika ng dayuhan. Let us support one onother instead of criticizing one's fault. Grow up, Pinoys!

As for Ruffa,

I wish you only the best!

Feeling ko, yang laarning yan, si Anabelle Rama yan nagpapanggap lang na Laarni. The way kasi siya na mag-English, Anabelle na Anabelle. And the way niya pinagtatanggol si Ruffa, so Anabelle - I mean the tone seems so Anabelle. Buti na lang iyong tagalog written lang, di binibigkas, else, Anabelle na anabelle na talaga.

Ruffa, the eternal liar, and her mother, the uneducated worm, come out as very pathetic figures. They want to be at the limelight again, perhaprs because the eternal liar wants to make a spectacular showbiz comeback. Ruffa should have been mature enough to stand by her man, or if there are things she does not like about her husband, she should just cut-off her relationship without resorting to all the silly theatrics she and her worm-of-a-mother are doing right now. Their actions are replays of their previous controversies, such as the Brunei episode where Annabelle pimped her daughter to the royals of Brunei, and the Manila filmfest scam. Anyway, the mother and daughter team are just being true to their form. I pity Yilmas and their kids. Yilmas does not know what he got into. Somebody should have warned him before he married Ruffa years ago.

Buti nga sa 'nyo. Kunsentidor na Annabelle. Sumobra ang paka showbiz. Akala nya anak lang nya ang pinakamaganda. Tama na at tumahimik na kayong mag ina.

To Ruffa, if you decided to get marry again, just call me and i will be there.

Annabelle day nakakaloka ka

Obvious naman, sira-ulo na yang Ylmas na iyan. Tama nga, iwan siya ni Ruffa bago pumasok sa isip niya patayin ang pinay-beauty natin. At maghabol man siya sa USA ng custody ng anak nila, sa pinagsasabi at pinaggagawa niya ngayon, excuse me, ala siyang magagawas at nasa safe base na si Ruffa et al. Mas safe pa din ang ex-wife niya at kids niya sa PILIPINAS, Sa Pinas, si Ylmas, di siya pwedeng pumorma-pormang MATON! Hmp!

To Laarni

I read your .... oooops. Nabasa ko mga messages mo. Sa susunod TAGALUGIN MO NA LANG.

Isa kang malaking insulto sa mundo ng GRAMMAR. Har har har!

Magkano bayad sayo ni Uneducated Worm (Uod na walang pinagaralan, hehehe) para magsulat ng maganda tungkol sa anak nya.

Teka ... di kaya si Monkey, Monkey, Anabelle ka?