Kris Aquino and James Yap are all smiles in an interview with ABS-CBN’s “The Buzz” on July 13.
Emerging from a much-needed marriage counseling, the couple seemed to have acknowledged each other’s frailties and would not give up on each other “through thick and thin.”
It was only a few weeks back when reports circulated that Kris and James were again headed for splitsville, which were borne out of domestic misunderstandings, petty fights, and allegedly a long-standing squabble involving Ai Ai delas Alas. Kris and James had a quarrel about Ai-Ai’s “isauli mo si James sa nanay niya” advice to Kris at the height of the Hope Centeno issue last year. This led to a major fight, allegedly, which made Kris leave home for several days.
But, obviously, this wasn’t the only issue. James himself revealed this in the interview.
“Dati inis na inis ako at saka galit na galit ako dahil nagde-desisyon ng mag-isa ito eh. Hindi pinapaalam sa akin. Major (issue) yun eh. Kailangan ipaalam mo kung ano yung mga desisyon mo. Para walang problema, di mag-aaway.”
Kris also revealed her issues with James:
“Ako naman sabi ko sa kanya, pag galit ka, don’t ignore me. Parang ayaw mong magpakita sa akin. Mas lalong magagalit ako. Ako confrontational, talk ng talk ng talk,” Kris said.
Kris and James said they both poured out respective ill-feelings about each other and worked out all the kinks. They said the counseling was very helpful in knowing each other better and facing future conflicts constructively.
James told Kris, “Ang dami nating natutunan in the past three years. Sana mas lalo pa tayo tatatag. Love kita. Sana habang buhay tayo magkasama. Forever.”
For her part Kris told James, “I appreciate very much na humaba na yung pasensiya mo. Doon sa mga moments na nag-ba-brat ako, natatawanan mo na. Na-appreciate ko na ngayon, na-vo-voice out mo na appreciative ka sa akin. Happy ako na meron tayong commitment. Panindigan ito na magmahalan tayo. Gawin nating strong yung family. ”
Kris then said she has accepted her place in the family:
“Tanggap ko na bilang misis, dapat walang ego. Kung sa labas ng bahay natin, pwede ako magsikat-sikatan, sa ating dalawa, walang ganoon. Pantay-pantay. Sa decision making, siyempre nag-ko-konsultahan tayo pero tanggap ko na yung final say ay nasa yo.”
October 18th, 2008 at 12:52 am
bakit kaya itong mga handlers at clothes designer ni Kris Aquino parang bulag di kaya nakikita ang mga pinasusuot kay Kris na hapit na hapit at dyos kong malaking balakang kala mo yung balakang ni Bituin Escalante. Sus maryospe kayong tao pati na yung panty niya eh naka mark dun sa sinusuot niya sa Deal or No Deal…hoy kayo diyan magsalita naman kayo sabihin no si Kris na kadiri yung mga sinusuot na sa Deal or No Deal…product endorser pa naman siyang nasabi.
October 7th, 2008 at 7:45 pm
wala namang perfect couple sa mundo, normal lang na mag-away ang mag-asawa,tama lang na humingi cla ng advise..khit takles c Ms.Kris Aquino idol ko pa din yan…i don’t know her,pero sinusubaybayan ko ang love life story nya.
Good Luck idol,
September 19th, 2008 at 2:51 pm
di na dapat pinag uusapan sa public ang dapat eh private matter na. sana yung mga taga showbiz eh itaas naman kalidad nila….at itaas yung kanilang pagkatao na hindi dahil gusto nilang pag usapan at para kumita mga projects nila eh sa expense naman ng kanilang pribadong buhay. kung sana yung mga project na lang ang pag usapan. napaghahalata tuloy yung hindi talaga marunong umarte….kelangan pang kaladkarin pati pamilya. tigilan na natin ganitong sistema. matagal na tayong nakakahiya mga pilipino pagdating sa showbiz. napaka-cheap natin.
August 18th, 2008 at 5:35 am
ano ba yan. divorce na.
kris and james are two separate people. Isang sosyalerang slut and the other is a very poor good and kind hearted boy.
James should marry his own level and so do Kris. As my mom always puts it, water seeks its own level. Never marry a mahirap, period.
July 26th, 2008 at 2:30 am
Dear all,
I know it’s devastating seeing couples throwing unnecessary words in public. Somehow it affects the viewing public nor most the kids idolizing celebrities.
Furthermore, it doesn’t makes it healthy for the whole family. If only people can keep it privately, the more it is helpful to the society, and not dragging all the that has been said and done to the public.
Regarding separation, it is a very long process for me, to save it first before anything else in times of trouble, counselling is one sign though couples are willing to negotiate and understand each other more through the end. But what if both were out of passion for each other and still have to be intact for the kids’ sake? Isn’t it hard to do?
I myself dont see it good to proceed. It’s better to be along than to suffer every unhappy moment. Let me ask you, how long should it last?